Shoot The Fair One January 16,2012

You ever have a friend, I guess that’s what we calling them these day, NEVER shoot the fair one?

Always talking about beating somebody ass or jumping them?

Steady running they mouth how they put people in the hospital for a living and how they can go anywhere, in any hood, and nobody NOT fuck with them?

Well I’m here to tell you that these people are pussies!

You’re welcome.

I know you’ve thought about it, I’m just saying what you really feel.

I think if you have to brag about your hand skills then you’re probably really not throwing them hands like you say.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve seen a few bad bitches get mollwop’d too and I’ve also seen a few dudes get bodies off my homeboy alone, but at some point you can’t win every fight.

It’s like a person saying their certified on paper to fuck you up.

No one wants to befriend a bully, nor wants to know that every time they go out with you their always gonna have to get the car because they know they will be kicked out of an establishment when hanging out with yo’ ass!

Beat someone’s ass when it’s necessary not when it’s convenient.

And if you are, play fair. Don’t try to fight a midget knowing you got the upper hand. Or don’t talk tough to a 5’2 person just because you 6’5 and can point in a person’s face to test their patience. Shoot the fair one.

Do that shit when they’re your size or can equally defend themselves.

It’s like talking tough to a judge and knowing you’re gonna go to jail. You’re a pussy in court but not on the streets.

Lesson learned today.

When To Shut Up January 13,2012

When is it cool to run your mouth?

When you’re not spoken to or shit doesn’t involve you!

Some people don’t really get the concept of it much now do they?

Do these people exist in your life? Maybe so.

To whom do you consider one of these people?

The Pathological liar, the Blabber Mouth or The Fool.

Pathological liar: These are the people who start to believe their own lies after they have been lying so much. It started with a small lie, then escalated into some bogus nonsense that got out of control, all from them running their mouth.

Blabber Mouth: These people just talk too fucking much! You tell them not to say nothing when you confide in them (sometimes these people are all you got to talk to) and they still go run their mouth, and when then the story goes from just telling the person a little bit of the story to telling them the whole fucking musical play, that’s when you need to buss they ass!

The Fool: They just dumb. When they talk, you get confused. Like what the fuck are you tambout’?  When you listen to them talk you just want to laugh because even when they are explaining shit to you, THEY get confused themselves and pause like: “hold up, lemme think. Ok so where was I?” syndrome.

You have to analyze these people and think to yourself, would they hurt you? Will you benefit from a person like him/her? And how much can you tolerate?

Be smart in who plays a role in your life even if it’s temporary.

A F*cking Hater January 11,2012

It’s so funny what you can accomplish when you ignore a hater!

Being biased and mean is far from similarity alone… far from but…

So when you hate, what do you exactly mean when you’re doing it?

I’m progressing with my life, taking steps to not fail, taking feedback as being honest but not harsh, and what are you doing?  Hating!

You have many different kinds of haters so let me break it down for you in case some don’t come to mind.

You got the “I’m not hating but being a true friend hater”: One who “claims” to be giving you honest judgment as being your “true friend” but really wants to watch you fall. Doesn’t like the fact that you look better than them, got to an idea first or would rather it be them on top and you’re the one giving the hating ass criticism to them to make them feel good about themselves.

You got the “I can never keep a man but wants to tell you how to run your relationship type of hater”:  Nuff said! The girl who ALWAYS wants to butt in your business  and tell you to leave your man, how he ain’t no good, she ALWAYS “sees” him with an ugly hoe, always wants to know if he got friends, and the best part, CAN NEVER KEEP A MAN!

You got the “Your girl a fucking hoe hater”: This guy who always seem to think every girl you get with is a hoe! The same guy you see smashing drunk bitches but can never keep a sober bitch and if he did get a sober bitch the chic realized she was dumb for pursuing in the first place after she found out he was WACK! It’s like this hater has spidey senses to sniff out a hoe on instinct. This is the same hater who probably pumps in less than 2 ½ mins flat and (I’m being generous), gotta roommate (cause he too broke to afford his own place), or probably not moving forward in anything he do in life.

You got the “Don’t take this personal or get offended hater”: Everything they say is BULLSHIT! I’m offended, I took it personal, you’re deleted out my space, FUCK YOU!

You got the “I’m there for you but talk behind your back hater”: These are the ones who comfort you when you’re in need, listens to all your hurts and painful explanations, knows everything about you, then what happen? They shit on you after you all better! Your no longer in pain, you got your shit together, moving forward in whatever obstacle you failed at then one day you “happen” to bump into an old friend, maybe a colleague trying to catch up, and you never know how it started but THEN YOUR NAME comes up! The times you thought he/she was there was the time he/she was slick talking shit about you.  Oh what a tangled web we weaved.

And then you just got the “Plain old hater”: No matter what you fucking do, they HATING!

It’s hard for a muthaphukah to see you prosper in anything you put your hand and feet in but all you can do is laugh at a hater in their face and say: “What are YOU doing with your life?”

Remember When… January 9,2012

Remember when gas prices were 99 cents?

Ha! Those were the days.

At one point it reached prices so high people diluting the gas to make it stretch for the week. LOL

These were the times when everything was cheap.

You could buy a good pack of Grade A weave, no name brand, for 20 bucks. If that.

You could buy a slick of pizza in NY for under a dollar and have change left over to buy a quarter water or soda.

Flex-N-Brooklyn was the show to watch and attend on the weekends.

BCAT had the best hood videos.

It was cool to wear gold outfits as an everyday attire and not for videos.

You could jump somebody and all they would do is come back and jump you, NOW, they killing you or making you get buck naked and then killing you.

You could go somewhere after school (that was before neighborhoods got crazy and too much to handle) and be in a band, stepping shows, african dance, double dutch or any craft you desired.

All these things are a reflection of the past and if we can just change how we reflect today maybe we can have memories of 2012 and how it can be just the same as the past. Well not the same but close.

 

Random Shit! January 6,2012

I had to post for the Friday people getting ready for the what? WEEKEND! LOL

Shit Black Girls Say LOL

Does Size Really Matter January 4,2012

To Leave or Not To Leave, THAT! Is The Question January 4,2012

How many times did you think about leaving and never coming back?

The thought of ending up with the person you figured you would spend the rest of your life with was a total dud!

I can’t tell you how to pick your mate, but I can tell you how to weigh your options.

I saw my friend put up with the man she was not considered compatible for—all because she flexed her standards for beauty.  Yes! He was gorgeous, but he was also a jerk. He made it clear that he was with her because she chose him, and not the other way around.  That is Unacceptable.

The cooking, cleaning, playing house wife but not in that order, was to say the least.

A woman should know her limits and what not’s of what she will put up with.

A man can underestimate a woman’s worth but not her judgment!

And you can quote me on that shit!

So be smart and set goals.

Whether it’s temporarily staying till you get your priorities in order and faking it or leaving and rejoicing and having the upper hand when faced with ultimatums you know you can overcome.

If you have to, BREAK UP WITH THAT NIGGA! Hell, write it down, make plans. No matter how you plan it there will always be an end result you will be proud of.

You can’t be with a person you think far ahead with.

It’s like you know you’re going to marry the very first day you meet the person you barely know.

Do not insert him or her into a slot to fulfill your desires to rush love.

I had a vision to marry my first love once, HA! Good thing that was a vision.

Learn from them.

Yeah, your mistakes.

Wow, The Untouchable Became The Touchable! January 1,2012

Smh!

Here’s what was said. Here’s what went down!

DJ Drama–aka Tyree Simmons–married his former video vixen wife, Summer Walker (above), 3 years ago.  We’ve learned his weekend traveling for work allegedly had a little booty action on the side.

DJ Drama apparently didn’t want anyone (including his wife) to know about his alleged transgression.  We’re told Drama offered little miss (alleged) mistress $10,000 to end the pregnancy…and to keep quiet!  Needless to say, she is keeping the baby and told Summer she simply “wants Drama to be a good father to their baby.” ..

Continue Reading over Natasha’s Page: DJ Drama on Some Bullshit!

I cant….

In 2012.. January 1,2012

Do you know what the year has in store for you?

Be positive and rejoice in good faith!

Don’t let the “fail” button prevent you from passing.

Sometimes your mind can hinder you from going with what’s really in your heart!

You have to be your own cheerleader when no one else is.

I believe in you…

You can do it!

Much Love!

Muah!

Answer This… November 19,2011