Wow! I use to think the reason for being single is the men who have no home training and the women who settle.
Its like you love being free to do whatever but hate being told what to do in a relationship when all you want is affection.
The more you want sex and comfort, The less you want stress and reassurance.
In my opinion, women should let the men be men. Let them hang with the fellas. Let their manhood be assured that they have a woman who’s not all in their face asking them the who’s, what’s and why’s, when there’s other ways to handle infidelity.
Men want substance and trust, and if we can’t provide neither then why are we fighting for a relationship that’s headed for failure anyway?!
BUT, MEN, you’re not completely out the dark too.
Why not put you’re woman in the zone of comfort as well, make her know that when your “working” its actually “working”!
There’s no reason to lie if you feel your going to. Just call it quits if its gets to that point.
Time and time again, I always say that if a person is constantly jealous and won’t give his or her space- then that’s a sign of insecurity. And that definitely does not mix.
Everyone has a purpose for being single and if it means going through bullshit to get to the good shit, then I can wait forever!
But damnit if I’ll be waiting!
Temptation is a muthaphukah and I mean shit! Even the OLD, old men look good when you squint one eye and stand on one foot! *sigh*